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| Tyler gave me this Rosary the night he proposed |
Today we celebrate the Feast of Our Lady of the Rosary, a feast that I discovered for the first time last year when we were in Rome and Deacon Victor (now Father Victor!) celebrated his first Mass as a Deacon in a beautiful church with a picture of Mary up above the altar. Someone mentioned it was the Feast of Our Lady of the Rosary, and we all prayed a Rosary together after Mass.
My first memories of the Rosary are praying it as a family in the van on our way to St. John's in Lincoln. This is when we lived in Waverly and it was about a 20 minute drive, which was perfect timing to say the Rosary!
I am thankful for my parents who helped Ashley and I come to know about this devotion.
Another memory of the Rosary is from my mission trips to Gallup, New Mexico when I was in high school and college. I remember the Missionaries of Charity, who always had a Rosary with them, would say a part of the Rosary, or a decade, throughout the day. I would be driving the 10 passenger SUV through the outskirts of town, going to pick up children for the Vacation Bible School, and the two sisters would start a decade when they got into the SUV, and then when they finished would sing a few songs. I would drop off those sisters, pick up other sisters, and again they would start a decade of the Rosary. Looking back, God was cultivating in my heart a love for Mary and these prayers and now I am in the habit of saying a decade here or there throughout the day.
I remember when Tyler and I were dating, while he was at Ave Maria, FL and I was in Lincoln, when we got to talk throughout the day, Tyler would say he was praying for me. Sometimes he would text me randomly and say, "I just said a decade for you." Now being married, what a joy it is to say the Rosary together!
I am afraid that the Rosary is not always understood, or that people, me included, don't comprehend the full beauty behind this prayer!
In The Secret of the Rosary, by St. Louis de Montfort, he describes the origin of this devotion. It was the year 1214 and the Blessed Virgin Mary gave this prayer to St. Dominic who then spread the devotion throughout the world. St. Louis de Montfort writes that the Rosary is made up of mental prayer and vocal prayer; mental prayer by meditating on the life, death, and glory of Jesus Christ and of His Blessed Mother, and vocal prayer by saying the Hail Mary while meditating on and contemplating the fifteen principle virtues which Jesus and Mary practised in the fifteen mysteries of the Rosary. (p.17)
In the book Rome Sweet Home by Scott and Kimberly Hahn, they talk about their hesitancy with the Rosary before they became Catholic. They were afraid it was vain repetition to repeat the prayers over and over, let alone pray to Mary. Then they came to realize that the more a child says to their mother, "I love you," the more the child honors and loves her mother. Same with us when we say the Hail Mary over and over, we are telling Jesus and Mary that we love them.
In regards to praying to Mary, what really stands out to me is how Jesus told us to honor our father and mother, and we know that Mary is the Mother of Jesus, therefore the Mother of God. So when we pray to Mary, we are honoring Jesus. (Another way to think of it is an artist loves when someone admires his masterpiece, because he created it and receive the praise. Mary is God's masterpiece, so when we honor her we are honoring her Creator, who is God.)
I have a deep love for the Rosary, and I know this is a grace from God and that it has grown throughout my life, especially in the past two years when I have been more faithful and devout in praying the Rosary. I want to leave you with a few last thoughts about this devotion, which come from Jeff Cavins's chapter in Catholic for a Reason II: Scripture and the Mystery of the Mother of God:
- "That is why I like to think of each bead as the heartbeat of
Jesus, and my goal is that my heart would beat in unison with His."
- "Mary
brings the mundane things of our lives into the radius of Christ's
mission and power!...She voluntarily steps into the middle between
Christ and us and says, 'These are the needs they have.'"
- "And
so Mary lives out not a role or duty but a love: she delightedly acts
like the Mother she is because God in His power and omniscience delights
to have it so."
And finally, St. Louis de Montfort gives us a beautiful image to think about while praying the Hail Mary and the Our Father.
"Our Lady has shown her thorough approval of the name Rosary (which means 'Crown of Roses'): she has revealed to several people that each time they say a Hail Mary they are giving her a beautiful rose and that each complete Rosary makes her a crown of roses." (p. 26)
"Every time people say the Rosary devoutly they place a crown of red and white roses upon the heads of Jesus and Mary. Being heavenly flowers these roses will never fade or lose their exquisite beauty." (p. 26)